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If You Stay Single Long Enough You May Never Date Again

The freedom that comes with being single many never get to experience.

Chris Freyler
2 min readJul 1, 2023
Photo by Pablo Merchán Montes on Unsplash

After years of “settling” many learn the brutal truth of a miserable marriage or, relationship.

This isn’t a negative article, it’s reality.

We are trained at a very early age to find a husband/wife, that WILL bring happiness. We are told to stick through abuse and misery, that’s unconditional love! Stay by your man or, woman!

So many girls are raised to find a man that can take care of them. They are fucked right out of the gate. Lose your independence and find it in someone who can provide for you.

So many marriages and, relationships are forced. In the end, they live in delusion where they settle and don’t even know they are settling. That’s LIFE! The life we were conditioned to believe.

By the time most people are 25–30 years old they have spent more time chasing a partner than they have chasing their own identity.

Their whole identity becomes this fairy tale romance and, love that doesn’t exist. But the media and movies have us believing different.

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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