If You Think Cutting Contact With a Narcissists Hurts Them, Think Again

Well, it does, but not like it hurts us when they disappear.

Chris Freyler
2 min readApr 19, 2024
Photo by Issy Bailey on Unsplash

At first, it doesn’t bother them at all, nothing. They don’t give a fuck about you. It’s when they start to give a fuck in their own way is when the gears shift.

But when they do give a fuck, it’s not the way you, and I give a fuck.

They give a fuck, because they NEED a fuck

Yep, that’s all you are.

You are something tangible, nothing more.

A money bag, sex toy, a shoulder to cry on, a person who is ALWAYS there through their bullshit, someone who accepts their lies, but more importantly someone who CHASES their manipulation.

It may not seem like they give a fuck at first, but sooner or later, all good things come to an end, and they come nosing back around. They need that little hit of supply you so freely offer at your expense, not theirs.

The only way to rid yourself of one, is to give them a verbal assault of truth that would make Putin, and Trump both buckle at the knees.

But in reality, disappearing sorta destroys them, if they don’t destroy you…

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Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.