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If You’re Missing The Narcissists or Abuser, Read This
What you are missing never existed. It was all an illusion.
I’ve finally realized what I “miss” wasn’t real. It’s an image they’ve perfected over the years to get you attached. They base all their relationships around how much “potential” they can get you to believe in.
I get you “think” you miss them. But all your missing is the illusion they made you believe.
What’s to miss about someone that was so fucking mean to you, really? If they loved you they’d never treated you like they did.
You got addicted to their words while they conditioned you to ignore their actions.
In doing this it gave them free range to abuse you while you called it love. They have you and many others on the hook. You aren’t the only one they are doing this to.
Think about how shitty they treated you. It’s embarrassing right? And here you are all tore up and broken while they are out repeating the same cycle with someone else.
But yea, we miss them, but what we miss didn’t exist. The quicker you realize that, the quicker you realize what you thought was, never existed.
That’s your ticket to freedom.
