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Is It Common For Narcissists to Make You Feel Narcissistic?
Why it certainly is, it’s called Projection
Oh my!! Do they ever!
How else would they be able to live in the fucked up abuse-ridden world they dish out and create?
Can you imagine the conscience you would carry around if you treated someone 1/10th of the way they treated you?
That’s right; there is no conscience!
The worse thing you can do is educate them!
See, I fucked up. I brought out all the guns. I couldn’t wrap my head around what the fuck was happening.
I was taking every personality test under the sun! I went to 3 therapists trying to figure out what the fuck was happening. They kept telling me it was Narcissistic Abuse, but I wouldn’t believe them. I wanted to believe every nice things my ex said, but it was all a lie.
My ex actually told me one time, if I didn’t get treatment for my Borderline Personality Disorder, she couldn’t date me!
My mistake was educating her on all the Narcissistic terms; Gaslighting, Projection, Blame-Shifting, etc. She started to use the words against me after she researched. Looking back, it was kind of comical how she would misuse the terms.
