Is it Ever a Good Idea to Date a Narcissists?

Well, let’s talk about it.

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I’ll play the devils advocate here and say YES.

If you want an unfiltered look at all your character defects, flaws, insecurities, and vulnerabilities, do it. It will show you everything you didn’t know you hate about yourself.

But it will come with a twist. It will be used against you and you won’t even realize it is happening. The subtle jabs in the devaluation stages of a Narcissistic relationship are disguised in many ways. And only a trained, professional victim can see through it, “most the time.”

I wouldn’t advise volunteering for the madness, but if you stumble into one it won’t be the end of the world, although it may feel like it.

It will be a lesson in psychology they don’t teach in class rooms

It’s an experience that is so intense no one understands it unless you experience it. I know you’ve probably heard that before, and it’s true. Most “think” they experienced Narcissists abuse, it’s the moment you stop thinking and start believing is when shit gets real.

The kicker?

If you take all that pain. All the confusion. All the self reflection. All the intense emotions. You take it all, and…