Is it Possible for A Narcissist to Fall in Love with You?

Anything is possible, but not likely.

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The intensity of the relationship is indescribable unless you have experienced it. They don’t fall in love with you, although it feels like they do. And the sad fact is, they really think you are the “one” and believe they are madly in love with you. And in the beginning, you will think you are the “one” too!

You have never experienced anything like this! Who wouldn’t believe it wasn’t love? The whole relationship, in the beginning, feels like something out of a cheesy Hallmark Movie you’ve only watched and never thought existed. But, here you are in the leading role, and it feels fantastic.

What they fall in love with is how you make them feel about themselves. The more attention and pedestal you put them on, the deeper they sink their claws. They can’t regulate their own emotions, although they may claim to love themselves, their life, and speak how great a person they are. They are in constant chase mode to take the pain away from their faults and flaws. And you are brought in to do the dirty work. The only problem is, you won’t know your role until it’s too late.

This is why they jump from one person to the next so quickly. They never love anyone. When the same old song and dance presents itself, they…