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Is it Possible to End a Narcissistic Relationship Without Drama?
You’re in the wrong type of relationship if you want to avoid drama my friend.
There will be all kinds of fucking drama. That’s not the issue though. It’s how much drama you’re willing to put up with. Probably about as much as you bring to the relationship too., right?
Can you see it?
If not, you will. You will become conditioned, and less anxious when the drama starts. Your nervous system won’t know how to react without it by time the Narcissists is done with you. If there isn’t drama, you will feel like something is off, it will have you so confused on “what” person shows up day to day.
When you end it, are you gonna take YOUR drama and go home? I’ll answer for you, no, you probably won’t.
We almost adapt a new way of living. And for most, we take some of that drama with us. In a sick and twisted way it wears off on us. We on a subconscious level crave it.
Initially, you’re going to like the drama.
Better yet, you’re gonna love that shit, and crave it. Why wouldn’t you? It’s what you know. Don’t act surprised when it “gets your goat” and adds some excitement to the guessing game that one of these…
