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Is it Possible to End a Narcissistic Relationship Without Drama?
You might be in the wrong type of relationship my friend.
There will be all kinds of fucking drama. That’s not the issue though. It’s how much drama you’re willing to put up with. Probably about as much as you bring to the relation too.
Can you see it?
Many who get wrapped up with a Narcissists for an extending period of time are “grandfathered” into the drama. It becomes part of you, and your body begins to expect it. You are conditioned in a sense and it becomes the norm. You are in a constant fight, or flight state of anxiety.
When you end it, are you gonna take YOUR drama and go home? I’ll answer for you, not at first. Remember, you have been conditioned. There will be more anxiety after they leave than when you were with them. This is one of the reasons it makes it so difficult to leave. We got sucked into the invisible toxic, until we in a sense, matched their toxic. By then it was to late.
Initially, you’re going to like the drama, as crazy as it sounds. And if you are a person that had drama, or sort of liked it, but didn’t know it, you will miss it in a sense. But not for long.
Better yet, you’re gonna love that shit and crave it. Why wouldn’t you? It’s what you…
