Is it possible to spot a Narcissist in the talking stages of a relationship?

Not every Narcissist is the same, especially the Coverts. They can be challenging to detect early on.

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Be aware of the seven tips below to avoid possible Narcissistic Abuse.

1. Sexual: They come right of the gate pushing sex. They will be very sexual and alluring. It will come off uncomfortable. I get many without Narcissism can do this, but it’s never a favorable trait to have.
2. Importance: Narcissists come across as being very important. They will talk about famous people they know or believe an acquaintance is a very close friend. In reality, they barely know the person, if at all. They exaggerate and glamorize their life. Their personal life looks nothing like their social media account.
3. Similarities: “What in Sam hell is going on here?!” This person likes everything you like? And better yet, most of your dislike they dislike too! You barely know them, right? But so much in common!
4. Sob story: They will start sharing some uncomfortable shit about past relationships right out the gate. Usually, they are the victim. Just let them talk. It will get more “cringe-worthy” as they speak. No one is a victim 100% of the time, except the Narcissist.
5. Accolades: They will pat themselves on the back often. Don’t you know? The actual “do-good” mentality…