Is It Time to Leave Your Relationship?

Sometimes we have the answer but fear pulling the trigger.

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I’ve spent the better part of the last four years in a relationship that has made me question my self-worth and sanity at times.

I’m beginning to believe I am gaslighting myself into what love is.

Here I am almost four years later, still running in circles. I’ve spent hours reading, researching, and watching videos focusing more on her issues than mine. If I can figure her out, then the answers will come. So, I thought.

While this relationship started my journey into self-awareness, I believe it has also led me to a roadblock.

In my 46 years of life, I’ve learned that most things don’t last, good and bad. It’s knowing when the lesson is complete. That’s the tricky part.

When is it time to move on?

1. Lies: The stories keep falling short of the truth. White lie, major lie, etc., they never stop.
2. Manipulation: Your partner makes you question your sanity. They say one thing and do another. And if you call them on the behavior, they flip it back on to you.
3. Emotional Abuse: You make it very clear a specific behavior/action hurts you, but they continue to do it anyway.
4. Friends/Family: The people…