Is The Narcissists Ever Really Gone Out of Your Life For Good?
Well, kind of, but it’s complicated.
I don’t think they are ever “gone.” They may not be in your physical presence, or even in your inbox or text, but they are watching from afar.
Especially if you were a great ego boost.
If you took their abuse in stride and always chased, you are number one on their list when they talk about crazy ex’s. Yep, the more you put up with, the more they talk badly about you. And once your reactions start flying off the handle, buckle up, because it’s you who is the abuser, not them.
Me for example, was a great “match” for a narcissists
There isn’t anything I wouldn’t put up with. I made her top priority even after she fucked my best friend, her cousin, lied about being married, played a 70 year old with cancer against me, all while lying and projecting her bullshit on to me. I know, hush it, it’s fucking embarrassing I stayed for almost six years! Trauma bond is a real, and dangerous thing.
The longer I’m away from her, the more I question what the fuck “it” was I dated? Narcissists, histrionic, BPD, psychopath, fuck, might be a combination of all of them.
