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Is There Anyone That “Can’t” be Manipulated by a Narcissists?
Maybe, but you have to be manipulated by one first.
I honestly believe the only person is one who has been through it.
But just because you been through it, doesn’t mean you will avoid another one. There’s shit you need to do to make sure it doesn’t happen again.
And most, don’t do it. The pain is WAY too much to fathom. They drink, eat, drug and try and fuck their way to forgetting. You don’t forget this type of shit. You learn from it. But most are bad student of the lesson.
The “victim” keeps fighting the battle long enough until they get tired of it, or some other asswipe comes along. Then they start dating them. Dating is the answer! You can date your way out of the pain right into the arms of a more covert type of abuser!
So victims go from one addiction to another.
Maybe the “new” addiction isn’t as abusive, but the victim is still living in their misery, but trying to believe they are not.
It’s called settling, and bit of delusion too. Well, that and denial. Denial is running rampant in the world.
Healing from this type of abuse has nothing to do with the narcissists, but everything to do with you. Fuck you, it’s not…
