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It’s a Horrible Place to be When You Love a Narcissists and They Don’t Love You Back
This article is going to tell you something you don’t want to hear.
The chase is on. It’s worked before, all I have to do is be persistent, and she will come around again! We understand one another, you know it, and she does too. She even told me! All I have to do is be patient; that’s all it takes. Calm me down a little and try and trust her.
You have tried to trust her for over 4 years now!
I’ve witnessed it, and to tell you the truth, it was pretty sad. Why can’t you believe her?
Believe what?
That she doesn’t love you. Why can’t you see it? I know she will come back at times; actually, she has always come back. But don’t you see the cycle you two are in? Don’t you see how she uses you? Remember when she was silent, her ex-husband took their son and his friend hang-gliding? Remember she was completely quiet, then she responded to you out of the blue and asked if you wanted to come over for dinner?
