I’ve heard others say that. But who is? What makes love fun is the challenges in it I believe. What fun would a relationship be without some issues thrown at you? The deciding factor would be how both parties handle the issue. If you have an open minded partner who is not only in it to work on themselves, but also to support you in your journey it would make the path more enjoyable in my opinion.
Finding a partner with the same mindset is the issues. I don’t think it has anything to do with “being hard to love” no one is easy to live in their worse. And loving someone in the worse is what it’s about. But not to be confused with abuse.
It’s complicated for sure