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Living With Potential is Keeping You Stuck in The Narcissistic Relationship

It doesn’t have to take years to heal if you accept your reality and not theirs.

Chris Freyler
4 min readApr 19, 2023
Photo by Lina Trochez on Unsplash

How long do you want it to take? How honest are you going to be with your reality and not theirs? Do you believe your truth or theirs?

I talk to people daily that tell me they don’t know if they will ever feel normal again. They can’t stop obsessing about what “was” and not what “is.”

The #1 reason most struggle with moving on is potential

We live with the reasoning of “potential,” of it will work. Well, I’m here to tell you it won’t work. Especially if you are dealing with a Narcissist. Even if the person has strong traits, it will destroy a relationship.

Most keep searching for an easier, softer way out. Or they are looking for that “one” person to explain it so it will all make sense, but it never does. The victim will bounce from person to person sharing their story as each person they share it with gets tired of hearing it. They can not and will not understand why you can’t leave.

You will never make sense of the madness

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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