My experience was I’d do all the talking trying to explain myself then the word salad would start with projection, blame shifting and gaslighting. Getting me so fucked up I forgot the issue i was trying to address that she wouldnt validate.

Then when we were together without me trying to explain her behavior that hurt me all she would do is talk about a crisis. She needs a listening ear for all the drama she creates in her life. She creates the drama all narcissist say they can’t stand, ironic, eh?

She tells me I am doing a smear campaign because I am speaking my truth. Spread the word of the abuse she does.

She promises me she will stop and she’s ready to “start over” she’s never ready to start over unless I never question any of the people she is talking to or those that she has cheated on me with.

I will damage you emotionally. Space is the only way to gain clarity, and even then I question my reactions.

She loves to attack my character defects and my reactions to her lack of empathy, lies, cheating a deceit.