No, The Narcissists Doesn’t Love you. They Don’t Even Like You

Here is a little bit of what a Narcissists “likes.”

Chris Freyler
2 min readJun 4, 2023
Photo by Ben White on Unsplash

That’s the biggest misconception about Narcissist abuse. They never “like” you. I mean, they think they “like” you. You want them to “like you,” but they never like you. Hell, it even feels like they “like” you. .

Get my drift?

  • They like the way you make them feel.
  • They really like the pedestal you put them on.
  • They like the way you tolerate their bullshit.
  • They like how you believe all their lies and give them the benefit of the doubt.
  • They like how they can make you compete for their attention when they purposely give it to someone else.
  • They like how they can cheat, and you are the first to come running back.
  • They like the way you worship them.
  • They like the way you drop everything and everyone for them.
  • They like how caring you are.
  • They like the little things you do to show them you love them.
  • They like how you think so little of yourself but think the world of them.
  • They like your reactions to their abuse, so they can…

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Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.