One Crucial Lesson Most Don’t Understand in Failed Relationships

This lesson is in all relationships, just not in the realm of Narcissism.

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Any relationship can bring out your character defects if you are aware and paying attention. You can learn the most about yourself from relationships with others.

I believe relationships with any type of Cluster B’s gives you a crash course in your fucked upness. They have a way of bringing to the surface the immense childhood trauma you most likely knew nothing about.

Unfortunately, most stay stuck in the cycle of abuse and miss the lesson. Each partner will focus on the other issues and not address their own. And in the end, the relationship ends, and there is nothing left but bitterness and hate, and off you go to repeat a class with a different teacher and the same lesson at hand.

I’m finally becoming aware it’s good to listen to what others say about you. Please pay careful attention. It doesn’t mean what they say will always be correct, but you might find a morsel of some truth in what others say. And the more painful it is, the more likely it’s an issue you might want to take a deeper look at.

I have all these defects that are slowly coming to the surface. If I had them all on my writing desk, I wouldn’t be…