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One Game All Narcissist Play You Need to be Aware of
It’s the most common test for Narcissism.
If you are dealing with a Psychopath, Borderline, Histrionic, or Narcissist, they all have a performance that elicits a response from you. They have to appear frail, vulnerable, and the victim with each performance. This is how manipulation and control start.
They all behave a certain way to evoke a response out of you that serves them. By serve, I mean they require your time, money, attention, emotions, body, sex, and so on. They do it with everyone, not just you. It really is a sick fucking game and is very hard to detect if you are unaware of what is going on.
They have a very manipulative side to get you to serve them in ways you usually wouldn’t have they not asked in the ways they do… It’s easy to get drawn into their victimhood and allure if you are unaware.
It can take years of dealing with a Narcissist to see this side of them. And once this side shows itself, you will never fall for the Narcissistic trap again.
It’s taken me years, and it is so fucking exhausting. It’s almost become an obsession with the research. I never want to experience what I did ever again. It’s to the point I question everyone’s motive, and I have no interest in dating. Hell, I don’t know how to date…
