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One Life Lesson Everyone Should Learn. Even if it’s The Hard Way
You can ignore it, or keep repeating the painful lesson.
Just because someone says they love you doesn’t mean they mean it.
Some are very good at flying around social media, as some spiritual gurus are all about love and helping people when they are the opposite. It’s what they use to manipulate.
There are people out there that tell someone anything they need to hear so they can benefit their own sick and twisted needs. All while not caring one bit about those on the receiving end of their lies and manipulation.
And if one of the abused “wise” up and calls them on their abuse and shares it with others, they flip the script and blame them for the abuse they dish out. Projection is a helluva drug.
Downright sick, selfish, and evil people portray they are here to help others. And the demented part of it all? They are good at getting some to believe them.
Be careful who you trust.
I advise sitting back to watch. First, listen to the person’s words, then pull back a little and see if their actions match.
The second you see any discrepancies in their actions to the words they speak, that’s it; that’s all the reason you need to cut this person out of your life.
And who cares if you’re wrong? We won’t always be correct.
But, I’d rather doubt the person delivering the message than give the benefit to the devil, and give them a chance to destroy you.