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One of The Most Loving Things a Narcissist Can do For You

It may not appear loving, but in time it will all make sense.

Chris Freyler
3 min readDec 8, 2022
Photo by Anna Gru on Unsplash

In July of 2018, I was at the airport.

I drive Uber and had just dropped a passenger off and headed to the cell phone lot. I had a call scheduled with a therapist out in Vegas.

I had just moved back from Vegas in November of 2017

One of my friends out in Vegas gave me the therapist number because he specialized in childhood trauma, and he helped her tremendously.

At this point, I was a mess; I was desperate to look for any answers to what was happening. My ex just took off again on another trip with her then-husband. When all this started, I couldn’t eat, sleep, and barely work. I can’t explain the feeling, but I would chase VERY hard and send multiple emails repeatedly, begging her to come back.

I would give her reasons why I am her one, just like she said initially. I was more pathetic then than I am now looking back.

My phone rang, and it was the therapist. I was nervous, I wasn’t going to answer, but I had to talk to someone. I was slowly running everyone out of my life, especially my group of friends out in Vegas. Unfortunately, I eventually lost all of…

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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