One Sure Way to Better Your Life

It’s all about being uncomfortable, what most people gravitate away from.

Chris Freyler
4 min readMay 16, 2024

If you want to even improve your life just a little, do something you aren’t use to doing.

It’s that simple.

I’m used to being a fuck up, and still am to an extent, but I don’t want to be. But it’s what is comfortable to me. The minute I can “breathe” so to speak, I love to hold my breath to I just about pass out, again. This has been the vicious cycle I have been in almost my entire life. A series of extreme highs, followed by devastating lows.

Being “content” scares me on a subconscious level

I love to celebrate life’s ups, and downs, with booze, but it never ends well for whatever up, or down I’m experiencing. It’s a temporary fix to the internal trauma I deal with on a daily basis. While there is brief relief at times, it is followed by more shame, guilt and depression that takes me further down the rabbit hole of self-deprecation.

Life is hard man, it’s not easy. We have to pick the most difficult path if we want true change. We have to pick the path with the most resistance. I spent years with an abusive ex. That was my path of least resistance. I knew what to expect daily with her. It was the leaving…



Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.