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The Secret to Finding a “Great” Relationship
It might not sound like it at first, but hear me out.
Date an abusive prick, specifically a narcissistic asshole that pushes you to the brink of insanity.
Why? You ask?
So you can see what you lack in yourself, and what you don’t appreciate in others. Sounds confusing, but it’s not. Many get so caught up in the manipulation, and abuse, they lose sight of the opportunity presented.
A narcissists will bring out your deepest, and darkest traumas, while playing the saint. All while they meticulously slow bleed your soul. Many times you won’t be aware you are “bleeding out” until it’s too late. By the time most victims realize what is going on they are already hooked, and addicted to the game.
The sick shit is, when they realize they have beaten you up a little too much they will give you a tourniquet to slow the bleed. But this only last long enough to pump a little life back into you to restart the bleed once again.
It’s here the victim will either settle, or they begin to search for their own “tourniquet,” one they control, not the Narcissists.
The best way to find a good relationship is to be the relationship you “want,” without another person involved. You are that other…
