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One Weapon of Choice Used by All Covert Narcissist to Manipulate You

Is it crazy making, or are you just crazy?

Chris Freyler
5 min readSep 18, 2022
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I know; here we go again, right? Another fucking Covert Narcissist article. They are exhausting, aren’t they? I mean, we have read everything we need to read. We “think” we know what we are dealing with, but do we? I’m here to tell you I have no fucking clue.

What if you think you are dating a Narcissist, but they aren’t your typical arrogant, self-absorbed asshole we label the “typical” Narcissist? How do you know what they are? What if someone will be mean as cat shit one week but a hurt puppy dog the next? How the hell do you deal with that?

The damsel in distress affect

How is it one day the person you are dating will treat you like utter shit? But the next will be an utterly broken-down person begging for forgiveness and loving you to the moon and back. How do they do that? They keep you guessing, I know. They throw you off. They play on your emotions, even if they are aware of it or not.

If you are somewhat of a normal human, you have empathy and feelings in general. And one feeling most have, is guilt. I know first-hand guilt can be the fall of many, it has been a feeling from hell I wish I could rid out of my life, but I can’t.

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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