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Remember These 4 Things When Pursing a Relationship After Narcissists Abuse
The complexity of human attraction is far more than physical appearance.
Research has shown that attraction can sneak up on us or take us by storm at first sight. Being drawn to good looks is the basic foundation of human attraction. We consciously or not seek partners who are similar in IQ, height, or appearance.
A panel of studies has shown Men are attracted to youth and health in women. Men also prefer symmetrical features, clear skin, lovely eyes, full lips, and a narrow waist with wider hips.
As for Women, research has shown they prefer a man who can provide and whom they feel protected. They also look for physical features like broad shoulders, an athletic build, and a deep voice.
While all the above is what research shows, what about in the real-life dating world? There is no guide for a sure-fire way to attract the partner that best fits you. Research is just that, research. It gives us a catalyst as a guide to get out and do our own exploration.
For some, their research falls short before they find the partner they want.
Many will decide to settle for various reasons because it’s not a secret, the dating world has become increasingly…
