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So, You Want That Mother Fu@king Narcissist to Suffer?
Say what? Is this a normal feeling after all the abuse?
This is a normal human feeling of being abused. But, unfortunately, it often led me down the rabbit hole of believing my ex, that I was a narcissist. All because I was reacting to the manipulation and lies.
That’s until my therapist Meredith Miller of Inner Integration, told me otherwise. But she also encouraged me not to act on those feelings. They wouldn’t benefit me in any way. And she was right.
In the “moment,” it feels good; the pure bliss of revenge can be cathartic. When I talked to Meredith about it, I had already fucked up and sent my ex-sister my Quora page.
I was so fed up with the lies and being played the fool. So I thought I’d show her sis a sneak peek of how her sister really is. But let’s stop the bullshit; she knows how she is. She didn’t need my Quora page to show her.
But no, it’s not wrong. It’s normal to want to get even or inflict pain on those who have hurt us. Especially to the degree the Narcissists abuse.
But there are healthy ways to process the anger and not do exactly what the assholes did to us. We are better than them.
