Stop Listening to The Person That Abuses You
Life with a Narcissist will have you seeking approval from the very person dishing out the abuse
“Get the fuck out of my car; you make my blood boil!”
“People like you are the scum of the earth. What you write speaks poorly of me.”
“I’m not going to stop talking to him until we are stable, plus he’s just a friend.”
“No one of purpose writes on Quora or Medium, and you are just looking for attention that you so desperately need.”
There is so much more than the above. I’ve spent the last two years trying to convince someone to like me, and I exhausted myself trying to prove that I am worthy and a good person — nothing I do or say ever changed anything.
I would spend hours talking in a circle to her, trying to make her “understand” my feelings. Little did I know, it was all a waste of time. She doesn’t care about any feeling I have unless there is a way she can flip it and manipulate it to benefit her somehow.
If she was nice to me, she wanted something. But more times than not, it’s because she didn’t…
