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The Biggest Advantage of Experiencing Narcissists Abuse
If you are paying attention you will never unsee “it.”
To “see” it, you must first go through the storm. And hell, lets not kid ourselves, you might have to run back into the storm MANY times before you see the advantages.
Another problem, most will never see the advantage, or plus side to dating a narcissistic person. Many never escape, or get stuck in a victim mindset that can be more damaging than the Narcissistic abuse itself.
The advantages you gain won’t be a pleasant experience, at least at first.
You are going to find shit out about yourself you DON’T like. Every little, or big character defect you have will be brought front and center and slammed right in your lap. Just because you have defects, doesn’t make you a bad person. This asshole was brought into you life to show you everything you need to work on while thriving to be the best version of YOU. They know what your defects are and they will attack, it’s here where you start questioning yourself about everything.
It will feel like you are losing your mind at times. They will put you through the mental gymnastics of hell with blaming, projecting, gaslighting and lying to you. You may even question if…
