The Narcissistic Game of Separating Fact From Fiction

It’s a game that will lead to insanity if you aren’t careful.

Chris Freyler
4 min readMar 21, 2023
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Possibly you stumbled across this article dazed and confused as to what the fuck is going on? You’ve been on a trampoline of manipulation for months now, maybe even years. You are at your wit’s end trying to understand your partner. Every time you think you understand, they move the goal post again, leaving you in a state of anxiety that can’t be explained, only experienced.

You’ve spent countless hours trying to explain your side of the story, but you feel more confused by the time you are finished. You don’t understand where it went wrong or what you did to deserve this type of treatment. Or hell, better yet, feel like you got nowhere, but the level of physical exhaustion is mind-boggling.

The average Narcissist victim goes back 7 times, and I think that is a low ball number to tell you the truth. In my experience and those I have spoken with about this abuse, it is generally in the double digits; this shit isn’t easy. But with each time I went back, I learned a little more about myself.

Here are 3 suggestions I suggest you really take to heart and put some time into mauling over; it could save you your sanity.

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Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.