The Narcissists Isn’t Happy in The New Relationship

It makes it worse if you believe their bullshit.

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This is the disturbing part about a Narcissist. They can and will attract an emotionally healthy person. This person will think “finally” they found someone that gets it! The Narcissist does nothing but mirror what they believe this “new” person wants them to be. Little do they know the hell they are slowly being manipulated into.

It’s especially troubling when the new person has no idea what Narcissism is. Even traits of Narcissism can wreak havoc on someone’s emotional and mental state. The new person walks directly into a fire that isn’t giving off any heat; the heat will soon follow if they stick around long enough.

But over time, not much time, in reality, the house of cards begins to fall. The healthy person will see behaviors that don’t make sense, little discrepancies they ignored as new relationship jitters, outlandish stories, drama, and a person nowhere near who they portrayed months or even weeks ago.

Now, if you ask a Narcissist this question, they sure as shit believe they start a healthy relationship after they destroyed the ones before. They think they are an excellent “catch,” at least on the surface. Why wouldn’t they? The Narcissist has a way of cleverly gaining a unsuspecting…