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The One Thing No One Does to Save Their Relationship
First things first, you have to make sure it’s worth saving, and you are doing it for the right reason.
Everyone has an idea of what the “perfect” partner looks like. And when the perfections they envision fall short, on to the next one. See ya!
Very few put the work into growing their relationship. It’s easier to just start over, and stay in the perpetuate honeymoon phase that eventually ends.
That works if you are just looking for shallowness, and nothing of depth. It works great for those who run around chasing an orgasm too. The thrill of the next new fuck, it’s disgusting in reality. Think, “psychopathy.”
Two things are needed above all else, you have these two things, and you have a chance; Honesty, and consistency, that’s it.
No matter what, always be honest even if it risk the chance of losing the person. And ALWAYS show up, be consistent in all aspects of the relationship. Let your actions take the lead, not words. I have a horrible habit of falling in love with words.
Don’t make your partner be a mind reader
Communicate with them when shit comes up, talk about things, and again, always be honest…
