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The Torment Involved When You Have Kids With a Narcissists
You’re in for a long road if you had kids with one of these soul suckers.
I have a whole different opinion of my ex’s husband since I finally realized what it was I dealt with and dated for five years.
The insanity I saw him living soon trickled over into my world, then it all made sense. I now see how he wasn’t perfect, like everyone else. I see how trauma bonded he was while he waited on the sidelines for her to “come back” as she was out “fishing” dick for years.
The lies, cheating and manipulation took its toll on him.
Just as she told me she thought he was gay, it wasn’t long before she started saying the same about me. She also loved to blame shift and use our childhood trauma against us. She made it appear she was the saint, just trying to “love” us, while we were the villain, and she is the “savior.” Demonic, mind fucking bullshit is what it was.
What she failed to mention was she was the devil behind the curtain all along, not him.
So how did he deal with her?
He “PAID” her off. He took out the fucking trash and left it on the curb so he could attempt to regain some of his sanity. The pure frustration and pain this man must have felt is…
