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There is One Person Who Can Bring Narcissists to Their Knees

This person is from the same personality disordered group, but they come with guns blazing.

Chris Freyler
2 min readMay 25, 2023
Photo by julien Tromeur on Unsplash

I wouldn’t say they “outsmart” them, but they will bring a new player into the game most narcissists never knew existed.

The Borderline is a person the Narcissists doesn’t want to mess with.

What a Narcissist needs is what a Borderline has, and what a Borderline needs a Narcissist has. Get my drift?

And if I were on the receiving end of either, I’d choose to be the Borderline in this situation. And if the Borderline is aware, they are one dangerous human not to be fucked with.

They are aware of the Narcissist’s feelings and agendas before they act. So they will call their bluff, waiting for the Narcissist to show their hand. The Narcissist will hold out as long as possible, but the Borderline won’t give up; they are a real player in the game.

They are one people that can make the Narcissist aware of the abuse they dish out and wish they’d never met the Borderline. Lol

Borderlines learned very early in childhood how to read the room. They were always on edge, ready for the parent figure to erupt or abuse them, so they had a built-in radar…

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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