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There’s a Huge Advantage Victims of Narcissists Abuse Have. Do You Know What it is?

Under all the abuse, there is a lesson at hand. Are you paying attention?

Chris Freyler
3 min readMay 21, 2023
Photo by Amy Treasure on Unsplash

First, to recognize the advantage you have to go through the storm. And hell, let’s not kid ourselves; you might have to run back into the storm MANY times before you see the advantages.

Another problem is that most will never see the advantage or plus side of dating a narcissistic person. As a result, many never escape or get stuck in a victim mindset that can be more damaging than the Narcissistic abuse itself.

And the advantages you gain won’t be a pleasant experience, at least at first.

You are going to find shit out about yourself you DON’T like. Every little or big character defect you have will be brought front and center and slammed right in your lap. Just because you have flaws doesn’t make you a bad person. This asshole was brought into your life to show you everything you need to work on while thriving to be the best version of YOU. They know what your defects are, and they will attack; it’s where you start questioning yourself about everything.

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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