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Things Are Easier With The Narcissists in Your Life

Go ahead, give them a ring.

Chris Freyler
3 min readOct 2, 2023
Photo by Max Harlynking on Unsplash

The trauma bond from the god awful creature finally broke! You are in the free and clear, right? I wish.

Ever since that warm day in August. when I was finally fucking done is when everything changed, but not for the better. If you heal “right” you are in for a rude of wakening.

So many “think” they dated a Narcissists, but didn’t. It just makes their fucked up self a little easier to digest.

You will know you dated one when it brings you to a crippling in life you didn’t know was there. A sense of insanity you watched in movies, but never lived, right? The mind fucking was “that” good. We aren’t talking about your run of the mill break up. This shit is something of epic proportions.

It’s not your “normal” break up

This isn’t some relationship you move on from easily, or quickly for that matter. But what many miss is you have to have a little something wrong in “you” if you entertain one of these devils longer than the courtship.

I’m serious.

When you saw the red flags, and ignored them, why do you think you did that? Don’t give some bullshit explanation saying you were manipulated. You SAW it, just as clearly as I…

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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