Unfortunately, People Change For Only 4 Reasons; Which One is Yours?

Change is the only thing constant. You can either roll with the punches or fight it.

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So many talks about change, but very few take action to do it. There could be various things you are trying to change in your life. Most people give up and lose hope when the change doesn’t come quickly enough. Very few have the drive, determination, and awareness to get the ball of “change” in motion.

Many spend years in a repeated cycle of conditioning while they know they need to change, but for some reason, they can’t. I’ve had all 4 reasons cross my mind at one time or another. I am one of those that struggle with change. It can be excruciating and challenging at times and a bit overwhelming. So I catch myself falling back into my miserable comfort only to start from ground zero again.

Hopefully, these 4 reasons will shed some light on why you struggle or haven’t taken that leap to change what you have been thinking about for months or maybe years.

You have to hurt enough

This could be physical, emotional, or spiritual pain. Or hell, it could be a combination of all three. Once you have suffered enough, some are forced to change. But at times, the pain of change can…