What are the effects of being in a relationship with a Narcissist?

The effects can be long lasting.

Self blame: You will blame yourself. And you will believe it, at least on a subconscious level. Why wouldn’t you? You were gaslit so bad you lost track of reality. You were told…..

• You need to believe them, they won’t cheat again.
• They were just friends.
• They aren’t talking to anyone else.
• You are crazy and abusive.

Feelings: You will quickly learn yours doesn’t matter. Now, don’t get me wrong. If they can benefit from your feelings in some way, by all means share them, then they pretend to listen. But for the majority of the time, you will annoy them. Especially if it’s a way you’ve been treated. Get out of here with that bullshit.

Trust: You won’t trust yourself, nor many others for that matter. You will question the motive of others and hell, even your own motives. You definitely won’t trust the abuser, but you find it hard as hell to leave the very person that inflicted the abuse.

Trauma Bond: Oh, the good ole “bond.” Whats a good ole long term abusive relationship without the most sickening “bond” many don’t understand? You chase the very person that abused you in the worse ways. You will justify the chase with the…