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What Are Things Not Worth The Effort?
I’ve learned the hard way, with personal experience on some.
Below are a list of things I deem, not worth any effort. I spent years chasing illusions and trying to control things outside myself.
1. Cheating Partner: I found out the hard way. They do not change, and when they say they are changing, that’s a lie too. Put the effort into a partner that deserves you.
2. Dating Sites: By the time you build your profile, surf for future partners, you will finally land one. And that one will be a self-absorbed, selfish, narcissistic asshole. They breed on dating sites.
3. One-Night Stands: For a little bit of pleasure could lead to a life of hell with the wrong person. Or a parting gift, an STD.
4. College: This may not be a crowd favorite, and I get that. You can have a great career and life without a college degree and the debt.
5. Conditioning: Staying in your comfort zone, nothing grows there, try it. Quit being a product of your childhood, society, and environment. Strive to find you. Takes a lot of effort to fake someone you’re not.
6. Lies: I dated a girl that if the clock said 4pm, she’d say it’s 5pm. She just couldn’t tell the truth. I can imagine the wasted effort it took to organize the lies and keep them all in line. If…
