What behaviors make certain people very likeable?

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• They lack an agenda: What you see is what you get. They don’t “turn on” Mr/Ms nice guy/girl to grab your attention. They are genuine and it shows in their behaviors. But they aren’t over the top in politeness.
• Humor: Who doesn’t like to laugh? I’m not talking about the wanna be cheesy funny. A person that has a sense of humor, and can turn on the humor when needed. It can be very comforting.
• Helpful/Caring: Again, it has to be authentic. They care/help because that’s who they are, not looking for something in return.
• Confidence: Don’t confuse arrogance with confidence. One, knows what they want and what action it takes to acquire it. The other, is a projection of insecurities that flaunt a fragile ego. Fairly easy to spot.
• Quiet/Listener: They won’t randomly offer unwanted advice or pretend to be an expert in something. When called upon they will share their experiences in hopes of helping someone in their journey. Other than they, they observe.
• Creativity: Their mind is always looking for a solution. They are a problem solver.
• Thoughtful: They remember the small things. They like to see people smile, laugh, comfortable and happy.
• Sense of Adventure: They like to have fun, and are spontaneous. They are willing to try new events/activities with an open mind.