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What Does a Narcissistic Relationship Teach You About Love?
For one, our perception of love is all wrong. But a Narcissists supports that perception.
That it’s really hard to find. And the kicker is you could actually find it at some point in your life but you are too fucked up to realize what you actually found.
And if you don’t at least value yourself a little bit, good luck. It’s gonna be a miserable path trying to find what many never do but think they found.
You either retreat or you sabotage it before it has a chance to develop.
It’s depressing, but true love is a rarity. We all love the way people make us feel, or we have a misconstrued version of what love really is. Make us feeling anything outside our miserable existence and we call it love.
Love should never be painful, love don’t lie, nor accept lies, and love sure as shit don’t manipulate and make you feel horrible about yourself.
Forgiving that shit isn’t love either, it’s desperation and lack of self respect.
Love is accepting someone as is, but not accepting abuse. Accepting your partner isn’t perfect and either are you. It’s picking someone up when they are down, and not…
