What Does a Narcissists Go Through if We Leave First?

Initially? Nothing, it’s business as usual in “Narcissists land.”

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Listen carefully. Take the earbuds out and turn the radio off.

Quit listening to that “one” love song that explains the fucking disaster these assholes put you through!!

So, what does a narcissist or a very manipulative person go through when you leave??

• At first? Nothing. That’s right. “You” are the problem! Why can’t you understand this? Quit projecting and gaslighting them! Seriously, that’s what they believe! And it’s precisely what they will have you considering too!
• They are focusing on “how can I flip the script” on you again! That’s right, and they will! They can’t believe you had “needs” and wants again after they showed you 20+ times before “you don’t fucking matter!” The only thing that matters is what they need! And when they come a calling, you best be there, or they will go to some other clueless soul!
• For a brief second, they might seem to care. Then “apathy” sets in with them. And it reminds them of how pathetic you are, while they have many other pathetic clueless wonders just like you waiting in line! Hurts, right? Guess what? Pain initiates growth; comfort doesn’t. THEY DON’T FUCKING CARE!