What “Happens” to a Victim During Narcissists Abuse?

Actually? It’s kind of weird what happens, but you won’t be able to describe it to anyone who hasn’t walked with the devil themself

Chris Freyler
4 min readMay 12, 2024
Photo by Mark Timberlake on Unsplash

I’m not 100% sure I was with a Narcissist. But I’m pretty sure I was with something who exhibited similar, or strong traits.

What happens is something that can’t be described. Your whole life changes. I mean, your life may have, or may not have been normal before you met them.

Maybe it was normal by “your” standards? Then you met them, and you realized it was anything but normal.

Or maybe you were lost, floating through life. Maybe you were out of a bad relationship, divorce, or even death of a partner? Then you met “this” person.

You met someone that was so easy, and fun to be around

They were so easy to talk to. I mean, they might have been over the top at times, but your ignored it. They portray an image of a person who has been treated poorly their whole life. And here you walked in to save the day, right? You two were meant for one another!

Maybe you didn’t believe all the bullshit they were throwing in the beginning, or perhaps it made you feel…

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Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.