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What is it That Draws a Person to a Narcissistic Relationship?
Looking back it’s obvious, but to the untrained eye it can be devastating.
Who wouldn’t enjoy being in a relationship where a person worships the ground you walk on? I mean, come on, you two seem like long lost souls that were reunited by fate.
You two have so much in common, you can’t fucking believe it! All their life struggles are the same as yours. All those insecurities you have, and even the ones you didn’t know you had, GONE! That’s right, they take those away too!
Man, this person is so into you!
And hell, it’s about time you found someone that appreciates your kindness, creativity, adventure, and sense of humor, right? Lo’ and behold this person was dropped right at your doorstep. They couldn’t have showed up at a better time!
A true godsend, or so your thought.
People don’t enjoy a relationship with a narcissist. They enjoy the courting and love bombing phase is what they enjoy. But they haven’t a clue what is really going on behind the “scene.”
