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What is The Downfall of Loving the Idea of Someone?
You will wonder why this person is single from the outside looking in.
You never see them post any pictures with their partners; they are always taking selfies or with their kids.
They are usually on some trip, graduation, or celebration with smiles on everyone’s face. And if they are on a trip, they are alone; well, it appears they are.
They appear to lead this life of purity, awareness, and love while sharing with the world what they were born to offer, empathy.
They are a life coach; they write about how to have healthy, rewarding relationships. They portray an image of a great parent and a happy family. But they never share a word about anyone they are dating or has dated.
The cat might slip out of the bag a time or two, but it’s quickly removed. They continue to portray a “single” person to keep their options wide open, get it? They love to play the field; they love variety.
They claim to be a survivor of Narcissist abuse and other forms of domestic violence. They really appear to be poor, unfortunate souls who have their lives together but continue to pick the wrong person. Their ideas are their projection.
