What is The Greatest Relationship Lesson “Time” Has Taught You?

Many don’t look at relationships as lessons, they look at them as an escape, or excuses for their character defects.

Chris Freyler
3 min readJul 30, 2024
Photo by Elizabeth Meyers on Unsplash

Relationships are meant to be painful at times, and uncomfortable. That’s if you are living the relationship right. Not abusive, there’s a drastic difference.

If you go into the relationship with the “save me, or complete me” mentality, you will be very disappointed in the end.

Relationships are nothing but a guide, and support system in a sense. But you have to pay attention to what is being shown to you.

There is a pattern in all our relationships

Doesn’t matter if you have had three or twenty. There are reasons you keep finding similar traits in all partners. Most will never see it, nor even be aware they find themselves in the same situational relationships.

They will go in automatic default and blame their partner, but not look at their own issues into why they keep repeating a repetitive cycle of unhappiness.

They nit pick, and blame the other person, when the other person didn’t do anything other than, be themselves. People love an try to change in their…

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Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.