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What Is Your Biggest Regret After A Narcissistic Relationship Is Over?
What I allowed myself to become while accepting her abuse.
But listen, I’m not sure what label I could smack on her, but she’s definitely manipulative in the worst ways possible.
I know all these issues was in me before I met her; I just needed to find a genuine hurtful person to bring it all to the surface.
All this unhealed trauma I never addressed. But I found the meanest person to throw it all on my lap.
I know she thinks I’m the problem. The difference is I know I have issues, but none that we couldn’t have worked out with a loyal, caring partner, and that’s something she never was.
It was all fake — every god damn bit of it.
The projection by her was the worst, especially this go-around. I really am questioning my sanity again.
She tells me I gaslight her. I begged her to tell me how I was gaslighting her. She said she didn’t want to discuss it because she didn’t want to deal with my drama.
What she’s doing is gaslighting me by projection. It really is the biggest mind fuck.
And what’s a bigger mind fuck is this is how she operates. She really believes she is being gaslighted.
