What Lessons Did You Learn From Being Trauma Bonded to a Narcissist?

  1. You develop a “love” for someone you will be forced to hate.
  2. You will confuse “love” with abuse. You will have no boundaries.
  3. The chemical bond the trauma bond creates is as addictive as heroin.
  4. You will crave the very person you despise.
  5. Cognitive dissonance(the good/bad pull) is what creates the trauma bond.
  6. Trauma bonds won’t break until the…



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Chris F

Chris F


Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.