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What Many Narcissists Abuse Victims Want to Say But Can’t

They want to say it but don’t know how.

Chris Freyler
2 min readOct 18, 2023
Photo by Velizar Ivanov on Unsplash

They went to war with a fucker in the most vicious of ways. It was so god damn vicious if done right it will show them a side they hate.

With that hate, they will see exactly why they were attracted to this fucking asshole to begin with. They won’t like the vision.

It’s not for the faint of heart.

There aren’t many “survivors.”

To survive you will experience a transitional pain that isn’t explainable. You have to live it to understand it, unfortunately.

Then when you realize the “real” god awful pain you feel isn’t from the abuse you endured, but from the abuse you’ve carried around for years in yourself before you met this person.

The narcissist put a big enough crack in your armor to start the slow bleed. Once you realize you are bleeding is when the fun starts.

It’s like you took 50 aspirin and your blood is thin, and you are hemorrhaging like a mother fucker, but you can’t stop it!

But you can. You can. Calm the fuck down.

It won’t be easy. But it will take a special kind of tourniquet to stop this bleed.

Many never get it right.

They call themselves victims.

Are you one of them?

The slow bleeders.

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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