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What Role Does Fear and Love Play in Life?

It’s simple, every act in our life is based on fear or love.

Chris Freyler
1 min readApr 11, 2022
Photo by engin akyurt on Unsplash

One vital thing.

Everything we do in life is either an act of fear or love.

Think about it. Take childhood trauma, past abuse; personality disorders take it all out of the equation.

Your partner cheats on you. Why?

You lie. Why?

You make your partner coffee in the morning. Why?

You rub your partner back. Why?

So many are uncomfortable when they get what they yearn for and end up destroying it when it shows up at their doorstep.

Why is that? Fear

We all want love. And I believe there are different vibrations of love. I think we can’t control who our souls are drawn to, and sometimes it’s, unfortunately, painful.

We subconsciously destroy what we always wanted when we get it.

The biggest issue is so many are chasing an illusion that doesn’t exist.

They jump from person to person, looking for something they have to find in themselves before seeing it in another person.

Because when that person shows up with what you’ve been searching for, you won’t be equipped to handle it.

Rinse and repeat.

It’s what people do, that, or settle.

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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