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What Type of Person Should You Try and Avoid in Life?

Surprisingly it won’t be who you think.

Chris Freyler
2 min readMar 12, 2022
Photo by Andre Mouton on Unsplash

God damn it! I appear to be lost! Why can’t I figure a relationship out!? Why can’t I figure life out!?

I’ve asked, well, not asked, but told many friends about the fucked up shit I put myself through.

Do I expect them to understand?

Who knows. I really don’t.

I wish I did.

I’ve always chased the wrong people down in life. When in reality, I need to learn to pursue my authentic self, but it’s complicated.

I’m not sure what to believe anymore.

I get upset with friends and family when they’ve given up on me. Why should I be upset with them? I need to be upset with myself, not others. But I’ve already given up on myself.

But I have friends and family giving advice they don’t take themselves.

But they are on the outside looking in. It’s so much easier to see the disaster afar, right? You see theirs while they see yours.

Sometimes it’s OK to listen to those who have their own problems. Sometimes they can’t correct what they are projecting onto you in their life.

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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